I want to share my life with someone who wants the same thing I do. It would be nice not to be alone in our old age. It would be nice not to be alone right now. Like I’ve stressed here time and time again, I don’t care about what a man does for work, what kind of car or residence he has, or even how much money he has in the bank. I won’t settle for someone lazy, disrespectful, unfaithful, or who doesn’t practice proper hygiene. That’s about all for my deal breakers.

I didn’t want someone who wanted more children, and I also didn’t want someone who only wanted me for my money or job status. Mid 50s, find women of all ages attractive, started chatting w/ a woman in her mid 60s at Costco who I may have asked out if not for the ring. Being tall and friendly helps, but I’m not perfect. Some of my friends claim single older women are bitter… I am staying open minded. It is my experience that physical intimacy enhances other aspects of the relationship, meaning emotional stability and satisfaction, trust, bonding, etc.

I had just recently been burned by another man and so I told this guy to slow down a bit. After a time he was feeling bad that he had to hold back his feelings in order to respect mine. I gave it a lot of thought and came to see that this guy may very well work out for something more than friendship. So I agreed I would just go with it and we had talked about possible future scenarios. Everything seemed fine until I became as serious as what he’d shown to me and indicated he wanted me to be. First, I want to say to keep up the hope that you’ll find a good woman that you deserve and who deserves YOU and the love you’ll give her.

He’s protective and treats me really well. I feel so lucky and wouldn’t ever wanna be apart from him. Just like you don’t like being called a baby because you’re younger, this man doesn’t like it when you make jokes about him being an old man.

Actually, for some of us (I’m 53 and have never been on a date) there are not and never have been any options at all. Either a guy can attract women or he can’t – and if he can’t, there’s no point in trying. Through our journeys and observations what we’ve seen and learned is that life is what you make of it.

He is 62 and he doesn’t have a single gray hair on him, whereas I’ve been dyeing my hair for ages. He also has a boyish face and younger gals sometimes chase after him. This makes me feel insecure, even though I love him, and I sometimes wonder if I should have stayed in my age group. Women are very vain especially as they age and they might also get embarrassed if their beau is a lot younger than they are. Some women don’t care about being called a “cougar” and others, such as your ex, probably cares a lot about what others think.

The real world counts

Much as they’d like to have us believe so, celebrities are NOT like normal people as far as I’m concerned. And she’ll be 30 and will have approximately only 10% of her fertility remaining. Also, her looks will have dropped quite a bit and male attention will be starting to wane at that age. Point being everyone gets old, that’s life. Also, a 52 year old with a 30 year old is pretty unremarkable.

Reasons for Women to Explore an Older Woman-Younger Man Relationship

Research by Gloria Cowan found that relationships in which the woman was older were perceived as less likely to be successful as compared with relationships without an age gap. Today.com dedicated a piece to the expressed reasons younger men love older women. At 62, I’m too old to date a guy half my age. I was in good shape when I was younger and that sometimes confused men’s radar. I still look and feel great, but 60 looks 60.

Or they’re stuck in a relationship that’s just not working for them. It’s not any harder than what other couples are going through, it’s just different. Talk to one another about how what other people think may influence your relationship.

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I would think that with divorced people, the percentage would be higher. I firmly believe that men are just as likely to be victims of abuse as women but men are more likely to physically abuse their partner and women are more likely to emotionally https://hookupranker.com/albanianpersonals-review/ abuse their partner. I also believe that many people in their 50’s either don’t want to admit or don’t even realize that they were abused, especially men. Unfortunately most women today have a big list of demands when it comes to finding a man.

Go with the flow and listen attentively. Be prepared to say sorry if the other feels offended. Regardless of age, you are opening yourself to a very important decision. My regards to all and success in your search. On-line dating for Seniors is very hard.

I never acted on those attractions, but looked inside as to why they were still there during a seemingly happy marriage. Once I got to 50, I began to appreciate and enjoy the company of women closer to my own age. I guess it was the decade we grew up in, the shared memories of music, the events, and the eclectic times. My wife was 6 when John Lennon was shot. I could never discuss that event, or others, she just did not get it.